Hello. I'm Melanie.
I help quiet, introverted and sensitive people emerge from a life of putting up with stuff that's been silently stifling their souls.
You might be here because you think you need to set more boundaries in your life, but you're not exactly sure what that means for you.
Sometimes you say 'yes' to people because they need your help, and you want to be kind. But what about when it's that person, who when you see their name pop up on your phone, your heart sinks? That person who makes you feel awful when you say 'no'?
Or what about that family member who tells you what you think or feel is wrong; so much so that you're not sure what the right thing to think or feel even is anymore?
Or maybe you're the queen of excuses. Your friends think you're too busy to hang out with them, because you often use work or kids as an excuse not to do things. Until your excuses run out, and you feel you have to hang out with them so they don't suspect you're not interested anymore.
But the truth is, you're not the person you used to be. You've changed, and now like doing different things, but you don't want to be labelled as 'boring'.
I can help.
I specialise in helping women just like you to understand and embrace who they are now, and to set boundaries to stop you being taken advantage of by the people making demands on your time and energy. I can help you learn to kindly say 'no' to what you no longer want to do (even if there is no 'good' reason for not doing it).
I can help you feel comfortable in your own skin, and confident when you say 'no' that you are honouring yourself, and not someone else's idea of what you should be doing.
It's time to let everyone know who you really are.
free 'How to Set Boundaries' course
Would you like to set more boundaries in your life, but you're not sure how to do it without coming across as mean or rude?
Perhaps you'd like to say 'no' more often, but it just feels so hard?
In this seven day mini course I will teach you the basics of setting boundaries, and why you need them in your life.
free monthly masterclasses
Every month I host a masterclass on a topic to help you develop your Self Belief.
My classes are packed with lightbulb moments, and participants find them a really valuable part of their self development.
self belief school
Self Belief School is the unique way I work directly with clients. It's for you if:
- you've had enough of the voice in your head telling you that people think you are a bad person,
- you always want to make sure everyone else is happy, and
- you'd love to have the confidence to speak up for yourself, calmly and without fear.